"Divorce is forbidden by faith, even though Allah SWT (Tuhan Yang Maha Esa) is really hating it".
These are the words mostly from mufti in Indonesia.
But why the excerpt not makes the parents mindful. “We’re divorce!” these are the words that always they say without think twice, how’s the consequence for them or their children. Maybe for them who don’t children, it is no problem; just they will get the widow or widower status without children. But how about if they have children, how are they fate?
The factor that always the children get after their parents divorced is Traumatic. In the future they will trauma to get their wedding. They are afraid to make a serious relationship. They just think that, “I don’t want to be like my parents who have been divorced in the past”, or another words that is meaningful as a rejection to make a serious relationship.
Another factor is they don’t trust their parents anymore. Many of them entrance to the wrong side, like drugs and free relationship or free sex. Many of them are trying drugs. They think, it is their dejection to their parents. They will be easy to try drugs with their pull a face or their parents. Also with free sex, they will be easy to try them.
Conflict is almost happen in the household. However the parents must be accomplish, don’t fast to get the decision to divorce. Every relationship must be always getting a problem, and the parents have to pass every problem in the household. They have to remember their children.
So, for you that wants to or will be marry, think twice until you ready to get marry. Marry is not just for passion, but marry is for build the family until you get children, raise them up, loving them and your mate, and loving each other until you die.
These are the words mostly from mufti in Indonesia.
But why the excerpt not makes the parents mindful. “We’re divorce!” these are the words that always they say without think twice, how’s the consequence for them or their children. Maybe for them who don’t children, it is no problem; just they will get the widow or widower status without children. But how about if they have children, how are they fate?
The factor that always the children get after their parents divorced is Traumatic. In the future they will trauma to get their wedding. They are afraid to make a serious relationship. They just think that, “I don’t want to be like my parents who have been divorced in the past”, or another words that is meaningful as a rejection to make a serious relationship.
Another factor is they don’t trust their parents anymore. Many of them entrance to the wrong side, like drugs and free relationship or free sex. Many of them are trying drugs. They think, it is their dejection to their parents. They will be easy to try drugs with their pull a face or their parents. Also with free sex, they will be easy to try them.
Conflict is almost happen in the household. However the parents must be accomplish, don’t fast to get the decision to divorce. Every relationship must be always getting a problem, and the parents have to pass every problem in the household. They have to remember their children.
So, for you that wants to or will be marry, think twice until you ready to get marry. Marry is not just for passion, but marry is for build the family until you get children, raise them up, loving them and your mate, and loving each other until you die.
1 comment:
Your English is OK. However, it is better if you mind simple mistakes such as: conflict is almost happen......the parents must be accomplish.....you that wants.........
How....
Things start from a sentence rather than tenses
Mind the Predicate.....if it is a verb then you don't need a tobe : must accompish...if you are using to be then you must have Ving: must be accomplishing....
Have a nice learning journey
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